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HER SECRET NO. 13

Every time she is in her dark room, she often gets a thought which hurts her so much. Let’s understand why she is hurt and who all were the reason behind it.

A quick question for all of you….

What is the meaning of comparison and how do you feel when you are compared with others?

All she knew was no matter what and as many things can be ignored, she is ready to be an ignorant person when it comes to comparison, until things go out of control and intolerance comes out in the form of anger and harsh words, and it is an obvious human nature that if anyone will be compared from someone, no one is going to like it. So was she, who was quiet when she was compared to others, but when the water reached its heights, she started to give responses and hence disliked by all those whom she answered back.

Isn’t it natural that you are good at something and you are never appreciated for that, whenever it comes to appreciation everything is put forward in front of you except for the one thing you are good at.

She was always calm and always did everything in accordance with others, but what she felt bad about was that her negatives were questioned quickly when it came to talking about her positives, why did everyone keep quiet?

You know why she calls herself happy in the darkroom is because her thoughts were always appreciated there, the dark room gave her the freedom to think and work on the things that are helpful for her to grow, and the dark has given her a lot of gifts such as positivity, anger management, contentment, so on and she has mastered to use them as her powerful weapons when she felt that she is in danger.

Whenever she felt low she gave a thought to only one example and that is, if someone is holding a clean white sheet in their hand and it has a black dot on it, then the Centre of attraction will not be the clean white sheet, instead that tiny black dot and everyone will ask what happened and why is there a black dot on it. No one will notice the beauty of the sheet.

Always learning things in this manner she has learnt to live her life to the fullest.

She knew that she had taken an uncommon route to live a happy life even after knowing that the uncommon route would lead her to a lot of consequences, and she is ready and willing to bear them instead of taking a common path and mimicking others.

Her darkroom has been her mentor, her teacher whose presence was never observed or seen but there is a lot much that she has learned from her dark room, shining bright in darkness, pushing herself to achieve heights. She is happy to learn all new things in that darkness because that darkness is her new teacher who is helping her learn new things and making her confident.

The important lesson above all that she learned in there is that-

NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS THINK, YOUR TALENT WILL SHUT MOUTH OF ALL THOSE WHO COMPARED YOU FROM OTHERS,

SO NEVER STOP LEARNING NEW THINGS AT WHICH YOU ARE GOOD.

And,

In any problem you are never alone you have your best friend and mentor, YOUR DARK ROOM WHERE YOU ARE REALLY HAPPY.




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