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HER SECRET NO. 12



 Hi,

She is back, back with another secret.

Do you know who she is?

She is trying to let all of you know that she is happy in her own space. She doesn’t want anyone anymore. Do you know why?

All the efforts that she made were never meant to make her happy, instead, she was putting all those efforts to make others happy. Now she has realized that her happiness is missing somewhere.

In short, she has got realization that she always stood first in the race to make others happy, but she lost the race for her happiness.

Let’s take you on the journey of a happy girl, the journey of her darkness and happiness, the journey that she will remember forever.

On that journey, she tried to explore herself, 

On that journey, she worked on her strengths and weaknesses,

On that journey, she tried to get rid of her fears,

The journey on which she tried and even still trying to explore what she is good at, trying to understand how to grow well in her fields.

She is a person who has always been a bit emotional and an overthinker, but despite being a pessimist she was always a seeker of happiness, and yes she found that happiness within herself and her dark room.

Her happiness is always in the people around her, yet she never complains to anyone about being ignored. She did everything for the sake of all those for whom she cared so much and got nothing ever in return. After all selfless love is much better than any of the selfish motives. Isn’t it?

She is a searcher, a postulant of nothing but a wide smile on the face of others, and what she believes is that she can fail many times in various exams of life, but she is always confident, the confidence of succeeding never makes her bow down. Maybe she will lose twice or thrice but the lessons she will get from those losses will make her tough to win someday that too with a lot of confidence.

You know staying in her dark room she has given thought to a lot of things, from living her dream life to reality, she knows that she has to crave the path of her dreams all by herself, and in that journey, she knows that she will make a lot of mistakes, she will hide a lot of things from others also, but the day of her success will be a full stop on all those who ever tried to stop her.

What is the most amazing thing Is her rigidness, her stubbornness in living her life on her terms. I know she has chosen a lot of different paths from others, but what is more important is that her aims and her efforts, her darkroom, and her dreams to succeed will make her feel proud of herself one day.

All the motivation towards her success is all because of her dark room, 

Yes, that is the reason she is happy in her dark room.

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